ak47's Bermuda 'love 'triangle

Discussion in 'The Clubhouse Bar' started by ak47, Feb 7, 2007.

  1. ak47

    ak47 Guest

    Well its not a triangle really just weird and full of unsolved questions as in the Bermuda triangle

    Anyways I need help boys and gals

    Met this bird a few months back she is great – she is devine

    My last GF broke up with me about after about 1-2 months of great times just out of the blue, called it off I was shocked, and horrored.

    Since then I have met this chick she is better our times are better, our company rocks, everything is just perfect.

    However last weekend she went to Melbourne, for the weekend.

    I was receiving sms all weekend saying how much she missed me and wish I was there

    Yes we have sex all the time

    This is normal for her.

    But when she gets back, she says she missed me like hell but she hasnt slept for 2 days, and just falls asleep on me immediately.

    Monday I go to work she stayed at my home

    I get home Monday, ready for a good piece of lovin……………..nothin………..she is still shady from her Melbourne trip, and falls asleep on me at 9:30pm

    Tuesday rocks around I go to work, she goes to work, and doesnt finish until 11pm in which she just goes back to her place so I dont see her…she says she will meet up with me on Wednesday for lunch in the city, and then come over after work at 8pm

    Wednesday I get an sms from her saying she cant make lunch, she didn’t start work until 4pm, and didnt know she was working until 12midnight thus wont be coming over.

    Thursday TODAY its been 6 days since we last made some lovin……….as I said above we lovin all the time…..its chemical bliss…..(in richie benauds voice) there is no doubt about that

    She is meant to meet me today and stay over but I wont be holding my breath.

    Things to take note which I cant explain

    Her room is tidy as hell on Sunday as per her advice
    She has a flatmate a girl that works at a pub – anyway she brings people back home from the pub all the time, and my GF knows them

    Wednesday My GF says her room is sooo messy

    Also last week, she said she slept from 2am thru till 5am on thursday……….but I overheard her talking to a friend of mine saying she hasnt slept, and she was struggling to stay awake (this is another whole story) I asked her but I thought you were asleep at that time. I get a response oh I dunno babe, I cant remember, what did happen?........silence broke, as she basically had nothing.

    Now do I confront her about the inconsistencies in her actions, stories, ethics

    Or do I let it go, as maybe confronting her, would be undermining the trust I am SUPPOSED TO HAVE, but really the trust is going, with every hole in her actions/stories

    Things to take note

    If I am missed so much in Melbourne why have I only seen her for a brief time since the trip

    Yes she indulges in recreational drugs………

    She has a bad history with relationships compared to her other BF….I am god, I am her rock, I have a stable life and job she has admitted to cheating in her past relationships.

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  3. Confront ak.

    Make sure everything is clear.
  4. ..::ERIC::..

    ..::ERIC::.. Guest

    Firstly, the fact that she fell asleep on you is not a valid reason that you couldn't of had sex.

    And secondly, I apologise. Probably isn't the best time for jokes. Hope it all goes well.
  5. ak47

    ak47 Guest


    i am meeting her for lunch in 1 hour

    worst case scenario - she is a dog
    2nd worst case scenario - its that time of the month, and i have undermined the trust....my head on her platter
    best case scenario - she apologies for the crap, and says everything is fine, please dont feel that way i dont want to lose you

    its definately one of those communication thingies
    so lets comm!!
  6. woosaah

    woosaah Guest

    right good luck man
  7. ak47

    ak47 Guest

    ok i never achieved anything

    i am a sucker............i cant do it sober

    will get on the turps tonight and try again.....on the turps anything is discussible

    cause atleast if i am wrong.......and nothing is wrong at all.........she will say "stop drinking you fool"

    if something is wrong...........well drunkeness will help my approach to the situation..........i always think with a stubborn selfish manner when i am drunk....and if something is wrong, this selfish stubborn approach will only do whats right for me
  8. dobrien7

    dobrien7 Guest

    All the best Ak...
  9. melon

    melon Guest

    Good luck brother. The turps is a safe option. As you said, gives an excuse for your behaviour if you're wrong.
  10. ak47

    ak47 Guest

    :bana: :rock:


    Brought it up.........she apologised for her weirdness, admits she hasnt been right, even her friends were saying the same thing

    She was on the whole guilt trip of her actions...........apologised so sincerely and nearly cried about the fact it affected the way i thought of her, and insisted we are good, i am good, and nothing to worry about

    Then the lovin began, with the full face of the bat!!!!

    Lighter on the feet today.............booooyaaaaaahhhh, and its cricket finals time, and friday

    Life doesnt get any better than this :bravo: :cheers:
  11. woosaah

    woosaah Guest

    great stuff ak glad things are all good for ya :)
  12. Good stuff ak, glad to hear it.
  13. O'Rothlain

    O'Rothlain Guest

    Good for you! Catching on to this very late, but am happy that you are happy and getting some sweet woman lovin!
  14. ak47

    ak47 Guest

    cheers boys

    The TRF really makes my day....this was great help

    your appreciation and support to everything is rock solid

    I have just resigned (4hrs ago) from my current job.....still got a month to go, and will still post but, my new job could mean, a cafe visit or 2 weekly to get on here.


    yes as i have have just resinged

    i am ****** already....second time drunk on TRF

    blah bladjbdwbdiwbdiwbdijdwb

    time for cricket
  15. dobrien7

    dobrien7 Guest

    Lol good **** ak, glad to hear you're back up to your nuts in guts and all's going well...
  16. melon

    melon Guest

    Haha good stuff! I like it!
  17. Make sure you drop by regularly ak.
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