Yes I think I definitely am to be fair. I see what it is now thanks for clarifying. Yeah, I was talking more about basic training and stuff.Sandhurst is about command, not being a lethal killer yourself. Much more emphasis on staying calm and making good decisions to direct others than doing a Rambo. That said I don't remember much skiing or fancy dinners either. It's a percentage, but minor in the grand scheme of things.
Sounds like you're thinking of the US Marine Corps boot camp.
Mind you , I love a bit of SAS are you tough enough which does resembles a US boot camp and I’m sure it is 100% realistic as to what goes on in the real life SAS training camps (joke)