You're only sixteen though, so any games you're playing in will have refs of a similar age, who won't be the best. It's a lot harder to get up to speed with reffing a match than it is playing a match, and there's no chance of your errors being missed. Give 'em a chance.

When you're playing in the last legs of tournaments though you should be getting better refs. I know all the serious schools competitions here get decent refs once it's on to the knockouts.