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<blockquote data-quote="OSU Blue" data-source="post: 211728"><p>i sort of went through this.. i took this past year off partially because i had to get my act together in school, and partially because my team wanted to party more than win matches.. i take rugby extremely seriously, and lost a lot of sleep on this. ultimately, it just depends on you.. im going to play this year again, and am going this with everything i have to play to win. i plan on re-evaluating the situation after the first month of play. if they are competitive and serious, i will be right there at the front. if they want to get drunk the night before matches, then i, too, will drop rugby from the top of my proiorities.. i love the game, and want to stay in it because of that. im just going to be sure and not get ahead of the team and set myself up for disappointment again.. </p><p></p><p> </p><p></p><p>so if it comes down to it and they dont wanna play seriously, then i will become more of a social player. perhaps just not travelling with them, or playing only on B-Side matches, etc.. my problem is more with commitment than losing. i dont mind losing to a better team. it's losing to a shitty team because none of my mates give a damn that keeps me up at night.. </p><p></p><p> </p><p></p><p>In your situation i think it boils down to this: do you love winning more, or rugby more??</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="OSU Blue, post: 211728"] i sort of went through this.. i took this past year off partially because i had to get my act together in school, and partially because my team wanted to party more than win matches.. i take rugby extremely seriously, and lost a lot of sleep on this. ultimately, it just depends on you.. im going to play this year again, and am going this with everything i have to play to win. i plan on re-evaluating the situation after the first month of play. if they are competitive and serious, i will be right there at the front. if they want to get drunk the night before matches, then i, too, will drop rugby from the top of my proiorities.. i love the game, and want to stay in it because of that. im just going to be sure and not get ahead of the team and set myself up for disappointment again.. so if it comes down to it and they dont wanna play seriously, then i will become more of a social player. perhaps just not travelling with them, or playing only on B-Side matches, etc.. my problem is more with commitment than losing. i dont mind losing to a better team. it's losing to a shitty team because none of my mates give a damn that keeps me up at night.. In your situation i think it boils down to this: do you love winning more, or rugby more?? [/QUOTE]
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