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Now as you might have seen on the Memories of 2007 thread, I'm having a bit of a problem with my girlfriend and a third party. I feel VERY VERY strongly that he's been the one who has been dropping by my blog and posting abusive and offensive tags against me and my girlfriend. Now he's also trying to woo my girlfriend, and I know not what he's been telling her, but he's managed to drive a wedge between us.
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take a seat everyone.
first i appologise for being a absolute plog of spilling my guts over the internet as lame as it is but...
i met my (now) ex girlfriend at my old job. im was a chef and she worked in the bar. i asked her out, she came over to my place had some fun and we spent every single night for a year togeather since. however, i got treated like total **** there and for the last 2 months at my old job, lets just say i wasnt enjoyable to be around. but because we were "in love" we stuck it out. i quit my job and took up a bartending job at the rsa (which now i am a manager) she was good friends with a couple of people from here work, and one spent some time with another guy (which i trusted her as to be friends) one night, she was having staffies and then went back to his place (with her other workmates) but i was at her folks place with her sister and her bf. we had some trouble with some hoons out side, yelling abuse and doing burnouts so we called the police and told my ex to stay at his because it would be too dangerous to come back (as she had been drinking so couldnt legaly drive anyway) the next night we went out to another one of her workmates places for his bday and i was talking to a mate of ours and keeping to ourselves. when we driving home she got shitty at me for being "unsociable" but then told me she had actually cheated on be with her mate the previous night. i was gutted but being blinded by "love" i took her back. two weeks later we found out she was pregant. i dont know wheither it was mine or not, so i stuck with her through it. however in the pregnancy she drunk heavily and smoked and treated herself badly. i always told her not to drink for her own safetly. even though we didnt have to worry about the childs as we had an abortion.
now her sister works at the local pub, which is owned by the the same guy who her brother chefs for. she met a guy who works with her brother but her brother hates because hes a real c***. he also went into the pub her sister works at and got totaly sloshed and went to work after, so her sister rang up the boss and he got put on notice. but my ex spent some time with him even though he was hated by the family (and i was loved by her family) she talked exactly the same about him as she did the guy she had cheated on with before, so i said, no you cant see him. and got real shitty about it. she kept on getting txts, which when i asked about she didnt say were from him, but i wasnt alloud to read them. i had looked through her phone and she deleted txts from him and his number. but i now know that she still had it somewhere.
one day, we decided to go on a road trip, we didnt talk a hell of alot in the car, but when we got to where we were going she said that she didnt want to go out with me anymore. i know (becuase she wanted to break up before) that she just wanted a reaction. but she wanted a "no but i love you i want to go out with you" reaction from me. but me being sick of silly games said ok. and it would have been fine.
i ran into her old flatmate a couple of weeks ago. turns out that night, she made out that i was a evil c*** and it was all my fault (clearly it wasnt because all i did was put her 1st, and i am a really (belive it or not) nice guy, proberly the nicest you will ever meet.) and that night she slept with him. her flatmate threw a fit saying if you loved him you wouldnt have done that. so i just did my maths and put 2 and 2 togeather and realised she had actually cheated on him too while we were going out. (or at the very least had the intent to)
so moral of the story.
say to you girlfriend - you tell this guy to f*** off, leave you the f*** alone, check her messages (even though it makes you look like a creep) and after a month or two with no responce from him, you looking like a creep will wear off. but if you find out things that you needed to know, it will save you from being as hurt as i am. if you two are in real love, she will understand. if she messes around with him then you have saved yourself alot of heartbreak knowing the truth before it stabbs you.
also make sure you have a outlet of life so to speak. for the last year i have become heavily religious. now it sounds funny, but i will explain it if needed. but i am a follower of the religion of rock and roll. i am dead serious, and if i couldnt listen to the live cut of tom pettys breakdown, i dont know where i would be now.
oh and for refrence, i am glad that we have broken up know. she will end up pregnant again, for some dropkick she doesnt love. she will be a loser in life and im lucky that im not stuck with her.
i am over her, but i am not over how a human being could do something like that to another human being.
oh and best of luck to you both [/b][/quote]
its the new year mate. sure its sth too be sad of, but eave it behind you. al the equaly evil c***s on this forum will gladly help you up. just hit us up or sth. cheer
and a happy new year.
I'm still getting used to the Asus EEE pc keyboard. Its aboominably small!
